ESCAPES FROM BOREDOM

“Cultivated leisure is the aim of man.”  --Oscar Wilde

The French poet Charles Baudelaire wrote a most unusual preface to his collection called "The Flowers of Evil".  After writing 32 lines about the terrible evils committed by people, he added:

There's one more hideous, evil, obscene!
Though it makes no great gesture, no great cry,
It would lay waste the earth quite willingly,
And in a yawn engulf creation.

Boredom! Its eyes with tears unwilling shine,
It dreams of scaffolds, smoking its cheroot.
Reader, you know this monster delicate,
--Double-faced reader,--kinsman,--brother mine!

How many times have you been bored?  With your job?  Your friends?  Your life?  Most people have experienced it at one time or another.  Some have been unfortunate enough to experience boredom regularly.

Contrary to popular belief, boredom isn't a result of having nothing to do.  It's very difficult to come up with a situation where your options are so limited that you literally can do nothing.

Boredom stems from the situation where the things that you could possibly do don't realistically appeal to you.  This leaves you inactive, and generally unhappy.  Thus, boredom is the result of having nothing to do that you like.

For many, television provides an escape from boredom.  So do games and sport and the cruising that young people do in their cars.  Protests and demonstrations offer popular relief from boredom.

The Internet also comes into play as a treatment for boredom, and perhaps a better one than some of the popular escapes.  The Internet offers so many things to do that it's unimaginable that you couldn't find something of interest.

Many escapes, like television, visiting friends and cruising the streets in your car, wear thin after awhile.  The variety of activity available on the Internet not only provides relief from boredom, but also often results in personal growth and development.

What then is available on the Internet to add greater spice to many lives?  One of its great virtues comes from offering something for everyone.  For instance, those working at a regular job often welcome the chance to do some distance learning in their spare time at home, while most students don't want to use their spare time doing what they do almost every day.

What do you enjoy?  Most people have a number of things they take pleasure in doing at different times.  If you're in the mood for physical activity, leave the Internet for the gym or playing field.  The Internet is most useful as mental exercise.

Apart from the many opportunities for learning on the World Wide Web, other useful diversions from boredom include games and hobbies.  An interesting aspect of this is that you can learn to play new games and develop new hobbies without needing someone present to teach you how.

Games

Before the World Wide Web, if you wanted to learn to play chess, for example, you had to have someone willing to sit with you and teach you and then play practice games with you.  Now you can simply type "Learn chess" into a search engine like Google, and you're on your way to becoming a chess master.

Once you've got the basics down, you can go to Yahoo's game page and play chess at any level you'd like.  While you're there, check out the dozens of  other interesting games you can play, including Card Games, Arcadia Games, Board and Tile Games, Games from World Winner and Fantasy Sports& Pick 'em Games.

The most popular Yahoo games are Euchre, Spades, Canasta, Pool, Bookworm, Literati (like Scrabble), Chess and Text Twist.  Some of Yahoo's games you play by yourself and others offer opponents from around the world.

The ongoing developments in Internet technology have brought about a gaming revolution involving 3D, sound and multi-player games.  If you don't have an ADSL connection and don't want to spend a lot of time online with other players, a number of sites offer games for downloading and the latest gaming news.  The most popular of these is Gamespot.

The Coffee Break Arcade has hundreds of free games in six different categories.  Most of the games can be played online or downloaded for offline play.  These are single player games; and while many are exciting, they're not quite as exciting as playing against live opponents.

For kids, the Multnomah County Library provides Arcade Games, Word Games, Brain Teasers and Riddles.  Like many games, these are educational.

As the author Leo Buscaglia observed, "It is paradoxical that many educators and parents still differentiate between a time for learning and a time for play without seeing the vital connection between them.”

Hobbies

There are many more hobbies than most people know about; and the Web has about 7 million pages that have something to do with them.  A majority of those are vendors selling to the public.  The trick is to find the sites that offer free stuff. 

One way is to go to an index of hobby sites, find the hobby that you're interested in (or think you might be) and click on the link to get you to a list of sites related to that hobby.  One such index can be found at About’s Hobbies and Games page.  They have a lengthy list of hobbies like Arts and Crafts, Collecting, Games and Pastimes.

The Arts and Crafts list is particularly fascinating and includes hobbies like Beadwork, Candle and Soap Making, Cross-stitch, Knitting, Drawing/Sketching, Jewelery Making,  Needle Point, Painting, Sewing, Woodworking and more.

If you fancy being a collector, the site has links to Antiques, Book Collecting, Doll Collecting, Miniatures/Stamps/Coins and Toy Collecting.

The list of pastimes includes Birding, Cigars, Freshwater Aquariums, Gardening, Genealogy, Home Theatre, Magic and Illusion, Motorcycles and others.  The About Hobby Index provides avenues to something for everyone.

If you’re interested in any of the multitude of hobbies that you can purchase, simply go to Google and type "Hobbies" in the search bar.  You can do the same thing for a particular hobby, like photography or model cars for instance. 

If you want to discover more about "radio controlled model aircraft”, type that into the search bar, and you'll find pages of websites dealing with your favorite pastime.

Yahoo also has a useful page devoted to hobbies, with links to Chats and Forums as well as Events in the top categories, making it possible to get together with others sharing your interests. 

You’ll also find that Yahoo has links to sites featuring some unusual hobbies, like Beachcombing, Bell Ringing, Bubbles, Cloud Watching, Dumpster Driving, Handwriting Analysis, Home Brewing, Juggling, Kites, Lock Picking, Puppetry, String Figures and Treasure Hunting.

Online Learning

Finally, apart from games and hobbies, the most useful escape from boredom comes from deciding that you want to learn something and then drawing from the resources on the Internet.  Two approaches to online learning deserve mention:

The first is to use search engines to locate websites that have the information or knowledge you’re seeking.  This can involve either skills or academic subjects.  If I wanted to learn more about how to write better, I would simply type “writing” or “writing skills” in several different search engines like google or MSN or AltaVista.

If I wanted to learn more about Middle Eastern history, I would type that into several search engines, and then visit the sites that have the information that interests me.

The second approach involves taking courses online.  World Wide Learn offers a large directory of online courses, accredited online degree programs and continuing education in 155 categories.

Blue Web'n is an online library of 1800+ Internet sites categorized by subject, grade level, and format (lessons, activities, projects, resources, references, & tools).

To locate other websites offering online education, type “online learning”, “distance learning”, “distance education” or online training into your favorite search engine.

For more about what’s in store for the future of learning on the Web, the article on “Tomorrow’s Learning” offers some useful insights.

The World Wide Web has so many things for people to do that it’s almost inconceivable that anyone couldn’t find something to relieve boredom with well-spent leisure time.  As Arnold Toynbee wrote, “To be able to fill leisure intelligently is the last product of civilization.”

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